Love is Beautiful I saw it on TV

A sales expert once said selling occurs in the spirit realm, man is body and spirit; the spirit is where the soul, mind and heart reside from where comes an emotion.
When you tell people you have emotional problems or needs they undermine what and how you feel but I must tell you emotion is one of God’s strongest creations and was placed in man for very strong reasons.

Everyone is a salesman and however way you look at it we are all selling and buying something. For whatever it is you are selling or buying be it love, sex, power, lust, hate, anger, confusion etc you must be wondering if all these are saleable? The moment there is an exchange in kind or cash, sales has taken place, the moment there is a conviction or a buy in or conversion to a different form other than what was, a paradigm shift of any sort, sales has occurred.

Life is about logic and emotions, a stable being is one who knows where to use logic and emotion. Logic which resides in the brain supports our emotions and justifies our decision but emotion will remain the core ingredient to a more stable life.

All that we are and will ever be comes from our hearts; a major battlefield laden with the ghosts of our past and the angels of our today in the wars of lust, love, confusion, fear, hate and freedom to prepare us for our tomorrow. Half the time when we hurt, we build walls of fear around us, we deny our former beliefs or uphold vehemently beliefs that make us inaccessible and less vulnerable.

Growing up as a child, I must admit for the first time that I was the weird one. I never liked dolls or teddies, my mama bought me a bunny and everyday I played Doctor with it, I fed it real food, I always carried out surgery on it and bath it everyday till it started smelling terribly, I hated insects and starved a moth by tying it in a white nylon, I stored a mantis in a cup and fed it leaves till I killed it, I preferred jigsaws and Lego(building blocks), I loved incredible hulk, hammer house of horror, Dempsey & Makepeace and any movie with guns or war.

At 14 when i began to notice romantic movies, it got me thinking if the things i saw in them were real, friends who read Mills & Boom will cry and apply stuffs like that to their relationships but I saw love exactly how it saw me. I saw love as selfless and not calculative. I still don’t understand the miracle behind love at first sight or love without borders.
People say they stop loving, I say I fall out of love with people but i really don't stop loving, i guess things just fly out of the window. I am one of those folks who claim perfect mastery of themselves but trust me when i say i have surprised myself countless times so i guess we all are capable of just about anything given the right motivation. We carry in us dormant or passive emotions like time bombs waiting to be triggered

I once said to a friend there is no love in this country, I said everything is all so calculative; we have already created the ones we want to love so as soon as we see them we open the scripts and start acting. I may have been wrong or right, but I have come to know now that our brains are like giant computers that look for matches based on past experiences, our beliefs, the way we were raised or unmet needs.
In most cases, people have brainwashed themselves to think that love is a solution or an escape from something just the way they saw it in Titanic. I tell you love the way you see it is the biggest trouble you can ever have and the most confusing thing you can experience.

To bask in love one must realign their beliefs and begin to see love differently. Love is not beautiful like what we saw in Titanic or on TV, life is.
Love is controlled by the mind, if you feed your soul, mind and heart with an information or paint to it the picture of whatever you want, like a robot it will identify subjects and will effectively launch an attack or make an approach. Some folks use love to cope with life problems, these folks need to fix their lives. Why for God’s sake do we fall in love? The answer is simple, we only fall in love with people who meet an unconscious criterion we have of course listed, so tell me how more calculative can it be?

Love is beautiful but not like it was painted on TV screens, the beauty of love is not exactly in the lustful pleasures it is in those unprintable moments that words cannot describe, the bonds and ties that only the ones bound can understand.