My sexuality

I have never being a saint, from my myopic view as a teenager a few years ago i dare not be associated with a "slut".......dare i say of myself that i was just a bloody liar living in denial of my very own existence.

Neighborhood gossip never fell short of a constant criticism of badly behaved girls who dressed provocatively, engage in frequent and risky sex and got pregnant. With the passing of days,i have come to see that they were the normal ones and the rest of us were just deviants and mutants. They behaved in the most natural way of their creation.....women in these teenage years and early adulthood and are at their fertility peak, nature has programmed them at this point to keep the species growing. They flaunt their sexuality not by their own design but by a force far greater than societal or religious ethics.

Sexual drive, the overwhelming desire to engage in sex (procreation), is ultimate expression of life itself, life is what creates new life out of itself.

Some 20 tribes in the world are of the opinion that a child ideally ought to have more than one
father.....don't be laughing now because i am still thinking about it from the medical side of the story.In some cultures this model of till death do us part missionary style does not apply, a woman is a gift and free to choose her mate....sperm is cheap i dare say it is a whole lot hence can be wasted i dare say also, but eggs are few hence very expensive. Women by the nature of the valuable resources they carry cannot afford to waste it by experimenting or endangering their lives with risky practices.

I don't believe it is criminal to admit that we have fantasies and women generally are sexual creatures and it is part a woman's feminine composition to be tender, sexuality of a female is a great asset for expression and it is no crime at all to live life to the fullest exploring every part of you that drives towards ultimate understanding of your being. Sexiness is the total embodiment of a woman....theories have been propounded of how much sex does for the human body, but here i seek that you understand the chemistry, depth and power of a woman's sexuality which may be expressed in so many ways than one, the tenderness of a woman, the adornment of a woman, the carriage of a woman, the pitch in her voice......

We are oftentimes afraid to say that we fantasize about sex with strangers or in weird places, afraid to say ice will feel great on the skin......it is no crime to long for natural rights. I am no saint but i am not filled with greed, our sexuality should be expressed but with organized pattern to safeguard the treasures we carry....