Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Before You Soil The Marital Sheets

Men are most scared when it comes to tying the knots
women cant wait to tie the knots.

for better for worse abi?
i see a lot of for goodies for stay, for pains for checkout

men do not want their women to change
women believe they are miracle workers so changes must occur in the man

expecting changes or trying to change someone
is the first sign of selfishness

ask yourself, have you changed?
have you tried listening to my favourite jam?
tasted my favourite meal, watched the movie i love so much
the last time i checked, you didn't know the tittle and you are not making any efforts

our needs are clearly defined even if we live in denial

A man wants sexual fulfillment,an attractive woman,
domestic support, recreational companionship and admiration

A woman wants financial support, affection, family commitment,
a conversation,honesty ( men want that too)

Before you take that vow remember:

You Married an Imperfect Person and You are not so hot Yourself

if you need perfection in anybody, you will wait till forever comes
You should work it out

remember perfect is what you define it to be.

1 comment:

  1. coming from a woman, this is the frankest talk i have ever heard. i used to think i was alone on this planet with such opinions. so much talking going on an very little introspection. sometimes you wonder if life is all about marriage the way some people carry on, both guys and girls.like getting married is a magic wand that you wave and everything becomes just peachy.

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